Thoughts This Morning on Halloween.

Thoughts This Morning on Halloween.

Life, must be easy, without discomfort or inconvenience, (or I can’t stand it) this is the helplessness of the narcissist, it is childishness, and it is manipulation of others to use their time and energy (often money) and to not use their own.

         In my case it was a learned behavior from my narcissist mother and the religious indoctrination I was born into. I have spent my life growing out of it, looking for the evidence of that belief. THERE NEVER IS ANY, “I can’t stand it” means I will die from it, *pinches self* and based on this evidence *ouch!* I’m not yet dead.

Kathleen said to me on my bench recently, I’ll have to get my daughter to show me how to work my air fryer. I asked if it came with a manual and if she still had reading comprehension…

Religions teach this childish helplessness in order to keep their income source enslaved. Narcissists groom others, especially their children (parentify them), to do the slave work like tolerating the frustration of life’s little chores, such as reading a manual.

Religions therefore enforce the notion:  I must do well and win the approval of others or else I am no good. The approval I must have is from the narcissist/religion. The rest of us are too busy seeking satisfaction to care, really.

Other people must do "the right thing" or else they are no good and deserve to be punished

        The punishment of religion is dire: eternal flames etc. Shunning can be awful if a person must be liked and accepted or else they and community consider themselves as shit. Especially bad in rural bronze age.

During the dark ages single women, often widows living alone, kept cats for company, which killed the rodents whose fleas spread the Black Death. These women were tied to a pole and set alight by the Christian community for the sin of not dying.

Similarly the Puritans now known as the united states of america, drowned women involved with rational scientific thought. 

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